Healing from Abuse
THREE MINUTE RECAP.
19 min. Abuse damages hearts and souls. It lays down a layer of shame in which the wounded heart lies cocooned. What is shame? What is abuse? This video gets to the heart of abuse, the damage it creates, and the distortions we have of ourselves as a result. It provides practical tools to turn wounded hearts toward healing, and it encourages abuse survivors toward rebuilding their lives. Topics include: • healing from abuse • emotional wounds • wounds • shame’s grip • what is healing? • laying down the lie • what is truth? • forgiving others • beginning the process • getting help • shame • leaning into truth • leaning into lies • faith • living in freedom • God’s love • forgiveness. ©2011
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Post Abortion Healing
THREE MINUTE RECAP.
22 min. Abortion, while extremely common and legal in many parts of our country today, leaves scars and wounds—some physical, some emotional, and some psychological. Even the person who seems unscathed bears the hurts and wounds from this choice. Told through the stories of women who suffered from their abortions and embarked on a journey to healing, this video encourages the post-abortive woman that there is healing and forgiveness after an abortion. Topics include: • post-abortion • abortion • forgiveness • post-traumatic stress disorder • clinical depression • health complications • anxiety • psychological impact • post-abortion syndrome • memorial service • remove power of secret • pain • need for healing • a new beginning • grief • look to God • relief • hope. ©2011
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Relationship Loss
THREE MINUTE RECAP.
21 min. Human beings were designed to have connections and relationships with others. And true relationships are forged with love, trust, and intimacy. But sometimes those relationships fall apart and end. Other times, significant people in our lives die. The feelings of pain and despair are real, and the loss of a relationship can feel devastating. This video looks at how to cope with loss, the stages of grief, and how to pick up the pieces and start living again. Topics include: • relationship loss • pain • grief • despair • loneliness • denial • anger • bargaining • depression • acceptance. ©2018
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Domestic Family Violence
THREE MINUTE RECAP.
21 min. Family violence is about power and control. And the members of a household with the least power—the children—are often the ones most harmed, even if they aren’t the direct target of the attack. This video examines family violence and its impact on children. It defines, explains, and suggests prevention, response, and treatment approaches. Rich in cultural and content diversity, Family Violence: Impact on Children features experts, practitioners, and ordinary folks with knowledge and experience. The program awakens the viewer to take action to prevent physical and psychological injury to innocent children. This high-quality production was directed by David Gottlieb, a renowned filmmaker in Hollywood, California. Topics include: • domestic violence • domestic family violence • verbal criticism • verbal abuse • threats • intimidation • property destruction • economic abuse • physical assault • sexual assault • common traits of abusers • impact on children • red flags • fear • safety plan • National Domestic Violence Hotline. ©2011
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Pregnancy & Infant Loss
THREE MINUTE RECAP.
21 min. Pregnancy brings hope, dreams, and the realization that you have created life. But sadly, some never make it through the first division of that precious zygote that is your child. Some never make it through the first trimester. Often friends and family unknowingly deny a woman the right to grieve after a miscarriage. This video looks at pregnancy and infant loss, encourages a woman to grieve the loss of her unborn or born child, and celebrates the precious life she helped create but may never have been able to hold. Topics include: • pregnancy loss • •stillbirth •infant loss •understanding your loss • understanding grief • moving forward • those who mean well • God’s comfort • sadness • depression • anger • healing • denial • bargaining • acceptance • honor your child • say good-bye • journaling • Bible reading • every life matters. ©2018
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Child Abuse & Neglect
THREE MINUTE RECAP.
18 min. Give parents the tools they need to stem child abuse and neglect. In a modern, to-the-point way, young parents learn to deal with this devastating, yet prevalent problem, in the interest of the child. It addresses the following questions: “What if I think I am being abusive to my child?” “Could someone else be abusing my child?” “What do I do if I suspect my child is being abused?” “Where can I get help?" Topics include: • child abuse • physical abuse • emotional abuse • sexual abuse • child neglect • preventing abuse • stopping abuse • signs of emotional abuse • signs of sexual abuse • physical neglect • emotional neglect • medical neglect • educational neglect • drug and alcohol abuse • praise and positive parenting.
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Sex and You
THREE MINUTE RECAP.
26 min. Sex is a basic human desire that plays a huge role in our lives. We’re all motivated by different reasons for having sex, but having sex can dramatically change our lives for better or for worse. As much as our culture wants to downplay the seriousness of sex, the truth is, there are always strings attached, and they affect us physically, emotionally, and spiritually. In this video, we’ll discuss the best ways to minimize the bad effects sex can have and share the secret to a great sex life. Language Warning: This video bleeps out some explicit language in the interviews. However, the understanding of the words is still apparent in the video. Topics include: • sex and you • sex • risks of casual sex • healthy sex • make a plan • ground rules • basic human desire • sex is physical • sex is emotional • sex is spiritual • STIs • risky sexual behavior • self-respect • love does not demand • sex bonds • relationship order • spiritual development. ©2018
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The Heart of the Matter
THREE MINUTE RECAP.
22 min. We all desire a deep connection with another person. We want a relationship in which we are known and loved. And . . . we want to have a great sex life, too. But can you have all of this through hookups, in one-night stands, or by living with someone before marriage? Our culture says, “Yes!” In this video, we will look at how sex bonds us physically, emotionally, and spiritually with every sexual partner we have, even if they’re not “THE ONE.” We’ll look at what casual sex and constant breakups can do to our future relationships, and what it takes to find the one partner who will stick around through good times and bad. Language Warning: This video bleeps out some explicit language in the interviews. However, the understanding of the words is still apparent in the video. Topics include: • sex • connection • Adam and Eve • God designed sex • freedom to choose • sexual bonds • sex is physical • sex is emotional • sex is spiritual • lasting relationships • oxytocin • save sex for marriage • sexual risks • marriage isn’t perfect • make a plan • define the relationship • God’s love • one night stands • hookups ©2019
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STD/STI Avoidance
THREE MINUTE RECAP.
19 min. We live in a day when hooking up is as easy as a swipe to the right with no strings attached. There are friends with benefits, sex without a relationship or sex to keep one, sex as a way to get to know someone, sex to get what you want, and sex to forget someone you love. But is this really true? Can we really just have sex with no strings attached? In this video, we’ll explore the physical consequences of casual sex, how to truly protect yourself from STIs, and how to have great sex! Language Warning: This video bleeps out some explicit language in the interviews. However, the understanding of the words is still apparent in the video. Topics include: • STDs • STIs • bacterial infections • viral infections • chlamydia • human papillomavirus • syphilis • trichomoniasis • genital herpes • HIV/AIDS • gonorrhea • bacterial vaginosis • hepatitis B • hepatitis C • preventing STDs/STIs • sexual bonds • condoms • symptoms • no symptoms • antibiotic resistance • STD testing • STI testing. ©2019
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Choosing Marriage
THREE MINUTE RECAP.
20 min. Many in our culture today view marriage as inconvenient and costly—outdated, unattainable, and maybe even the stuff of fantasy. Many have a “try before you buy” motto about relationships. But does this really get you to where you want to be—in a relationship with the guy who wants to spend the rest of his life with you? In this video, we will explore all that and discuss the best way to find “the one” who will commit to you, promise to love you, and be there for you no matter what. Language Warning: This video bleeps out some explicit language in the interviews. However, the understanding of the words is still apparent in the video. Topics include: • choosing marriage • the exact opposite • marriage is different • making the choice • deep connections • lifelong bonds • one night stands • hookups • living together • cohabitation • toxic relationships • marriage is better • setting boundaries • defining relationship goals. ©2019
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Making the Commitment
THREE MINUTE RECAP.
18 min. Finding the right partner to live life with is both valuable and worth putting in the time and effort for! Commitment and determination, if you stick with it, will net you the kind of love you want—the kind that puts you first and keeps you first forever. But commitment isn’t easy. In this video, we’ll explore why it’s important, what it means, and how you can do it. We’ll show you a great plan that will get you on the road to a happier life—and better sex. You can make the commitment. Language Warning: This video bleeps out some explicit language in the interviews. However, the understanding of the words is still apparent in the video. Topics include: • marriage • sex outside of marriage • making the commitment • set dating boundaries • living the plan • active sex life • sex in marriage • follow through • communication • healthy boundaries • temptations • sexual bonds • safe sex • living together. ©2019
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Unraveled Roots: Why am I here?
THREE MINUTE RECAP.
7 min. You want life to be different, but have no idea how to change it. You may doubt that change is even possible. But you’re here because you’re tired of the cycle. Tired of finding yourself in the same place over and over again. We're here to tell you this: You are not alone. You didn't arrive here overnight. And there is a reason you are in this place.
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Unraveled Roots: The Root of Abandonment
THREE MINUTE RECAP.
13 min. This lesson explores the first root: Abandonment. Have you ever been in a crowd and felt lonely? Misunderstood? Or simply invisible? Most of us have at one time or another. But some have felt that most of their childhood. In this lesson, you will learn how to identify abandonment from your past and move beyond to healing. The Fact Sheet contains client workbook pages 1-11.
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Unraveled Roots: The Root of Addiction
THREE MINUTE RECAP.
14 min. This lesson addresses the second root: Addiction. Parents who struggle with substance or behavior addictions model unhealthy and damaging ways for their children to feel good about themselves, cope with disappointments, and build relationships. If your parent(s) reached for drugs, sex, food, or more to make themselves feel happy, loved, in control—or at least to numb their pain, they likely ended up inflicting pain on you. This lesson will help you identify addiction in your past and learn how to move beyond it to healing and growth.
The Fact Sheet contains client workbook pages 1-7 & 15-17.. The Discussion Sheet contains workbook pages 8-14.
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Unraveled Roots: The Root of Abuse
THREE MINUTE RECAP.
13 min. This lesson addresses the third root: Abuse. Any kind of abuse, especially in childhood, can damage a sense of who we are and rob us of security, especially in childhood. In this lesson, we will identify the different types of abuse and learn how to heal and grow.
The Fact Sheet contains client workbook pages 1-7 & 14. The Discussion Sheet contains workbook pages 8-13.
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Unraveled Roots: The Root of Codependency
THREE MINUTE RECAP.
13 min. This lesson will address the fourth root: Codependency. When we become too closely intertwined with others and depend on them to provide our value and purpose, our personal growth and development are damaged. In this lesson, we will explore the concept of codependency, identify if this is present in your life, and help you heal and grow to move beyond.
The Fact Sheet contains client workbook pages 1-5 & 13-15. The Discussion Sheet contains workbook pages 6-12.
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Unraveled Roots: Where Do I Grow Now?
THREE MINUTE RECAP.
5 min. You now know the why, so let's dig into the way. How do you move forward into a new way of living? What does this look like? Can your life really be different? Are you strong enough? In this final lesson of Unraveled Roots, we will answer these questions, equipping you to take healthy steps forward to a new day.
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Your Relationship: Healthy, Unhealthy or Toxic?
THREE MINUTE RECAP.
19 min. How healthy is your relationship? Do you sense in your heart something is off, but you can’t quite put your finger on it? In this lesson, we examine the health of your intimate relationships, past or present. We will discuss the difference between normal relational conflict, domestic abuse, and narcissism. You deserve to be treated with value. Learn to set boundaries that speak to
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Understanding Power and Control in Intimate Partner Relationships
THREE MINUTE RECAP.
18 min. Most people experiencing abuse don’t recognize it because of how they define it. During this lesson, we will discuss the many ways abusive behaviors presents itself. You will receive a clear understanding of psychological abuse, property abuse, verbal abuse, and much more. You will learn about the obvious and subtle forms of domestic abuse, and how the behavior is less about the type of abuse and more about the misuse of power and control.
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Recognizing the Cycle of Abuse
THREE MINUTE RECAP.
16 min. It is common to think that someone has an anger or substance abuse issue when really it is domestic abuse. Abuse is a choice someone makes to gain power and control over their intimate partner. Anger is an emotion but abuse is a choice. It repeats over and over, like a cycle. In this lesson, you will learn to recognize the cycle of abuse. If a person can recognize it, they can make choices to bring an end to the abuse in their life.
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Warning Signs of Unhealthy People
THREE MINUTE RECAP.
18 min. You usually can’t tell when you first meet someone if they are unhealthy or if they might be abusive. But there are signs you can watch for. The use of power and control is a pattern of behaviors. In this lesson, you will learn to recognize some of the most common warning signs of abusive people.
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Can an Abuser Change?
THREE MINUTE RECAP.
18 min. No one enters a relationship to see it end. That is why this question, “Can an abuser change?” is so important to answer. In this lesson, we will draw on the two decades of experience working with those who abuse, as well as research to answer this question and another important one, “What if he doesn’t change?”
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Reclaiming Your Value & Experiencing Healthy Relationships
THREE MINUTE RECAP.
18 min. Do you recognize your value and your worth? When you truly feel worthy, you will begin to say “no” to the abuse in your life. How do you get there after your self-worth was damaged? In this lesson, we will teach you about how God values you, and how believing this truth will change your life. Learn the signs of healthy relationships. You have power to make changes, live life free of abuse, and experience healthy relationships.
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Keys to Hope and Healing Key 1: Acknowledge where you are now
THREE MINUTE RECAP.
10 min. Acknowledge Where You Are Now is inviting you to stop and check in with yourself by asking, “How am I really doing following my abortion?” Identifying and acknowledging your emotions is a crucial key to working through your abortion experience. Many overlook this critical step. However, these emotions need to be acknowledged. An abortion does change you, and very few women are not affected in some way by their abortion. Topics include: • abortion • emotions • keys • healing •self-honesty
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Keys to Hope and Healing Key 2: You are not alone
THREE MINUTE RECAP.
9 min. You are not alone in your abortion experience, and you are not alone in feeling lonely. From an aerial perspective, countless women were shocked by the devastating effects of their abortion on their emotions. In this lesson, you will learn that sharing what you have experienced since your abortion in a safe environment can be essential to understanding that You Are Not Alone. Topics include: • abortion • emotions • keys • healing •lonely • counseling • sharing
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Keys to Hope and Healing Key 3: Freedom from anger through forgiveness
THREE MINUTE RECAP.
8 min. In Freedom from anger through forgiveness you will learn the three steps to forgiveness. Step 1 talks about the universal truth is the only way to get rid of your anger.
Step 2 talks about how forgiveness is a necessary key to experiencing freedom from anger and helping you find inner peace. Step 3 talks about forgiveness as the key to serenity and joy, and a vital key to hope and healing. Topics include: • abortion • emotions • keys • healing • freedom • anger • forgiveness • grace • peace
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Keys to Hope and Healing Key 4: Moving through grief
THREE MINUTE RECAP.
11 min. In Key 4 we will look at four steps in the grieving process: acknowledge, accept, connect, and adapt. You will learn to acknowledge where you are with the loss to move through grief. You will learn how to accept the loss of your child to abortion. Some women choose to express love for their child by finding ways to connect with the loss by honoring their child. The fourth point to coping with grief is to adapt to the loss of your child to abortion. Topics include: • abortion • emotions • keys • healing • grief •anger • support • memorial •acknowledge • accept • connect • adapt
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Keys to Hope and Healing Key 5: Walking in confidence and hope
THREE MINUTE RECAP.
9 min. In Key 5 you will learn that there is power in accepting the things outside your control and the things you cannot change. There is relief in allowing this concept to travel from your head to your heart. It is helpful to remind yourself that you cannot control other people’s thoughts or actions. Topics include: • abortion • emotions • keys • healing • confidence • hope • positive thoughts • painful memories • flashbacks • elephant story
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Keys to Hope and Healing Key 6: Giving hope to others
THREE MINUTE RECAP.
8 min. In Key 6 you will learn that your story and your experience can be the key to helping other women start their own healing journey. You will learn your words and your actions can make a difference in someone’s life. Topics include: • abortion • emotions • keys • healing • hope to others • starfish • pay it forward • dark secret
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Men's Keys to Hope and Healing Key 1: Acknowledge Where You Are Now
THREE MINUTE RECAP.
13 min. Acknowledge Where You Are Now is inviting you to stop and check in with yourself by asking, “How am I really doing following the abortion?” Identifying and acknowledging your emotions is a crucial key to working through your abortion experience. Many overlook this critical step. However, these emotions need to be acknowledged. An abortion does change you, and very few men are not affected in some way by their abortion. Topics include: • abortion • emotions • keys • healing •self-honesty
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Men's Keys to Hope and Healing Key 2: You are not alone
THREE MINUTE RECAP.
10 min. You are not alone in your abortion experience, and you are not alone in feeling lonely. From an aerial perspective, countless men were shocked by the devastating effects of their abortion on their emotions. In this lesson, you will learn that sharing what you have experienced since your abortion in a safe environment can be essential to understanding that You Are Not Alone. Topics include: • abortion • emotions • keys • healing •lonely • counseling • sharing
© 2021 The Word Among Us Press
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Men's Keys to Hope and Healing Key 3: Freedom from anger through forgiveness
THREE MINUTE RECAP.
12 min. In Freedom from anger through forgiveness you will learn the three steps to forgiveness. Step 1 talks about universal truth is the only way to get rid of your anger.
Step 2 talks about how forgiveness is a necessary key to experiencing freedom from anger and helping you find inner peace. Step 3 talks about forgiveness as the key to serenity and joy, and a vital key to hope and healing. Topics include: • abortion • emotions • keys • healing • freedom • anger • forgiveness • grace • peace
© 2021 The Word Among Us Press
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Men's Keys to Hope and Healing Key 4: Moving through grief
THREE MINUTE RECAP.
9 min. In Key 4 we will look at four steps in the grieving process: acknowledge, accept, connect, and adapt. You will learn to acknowledge where you are with the loss to move through grief. You will learn how to accept the loss of your child to abortion. Some men choose to express love for their child by finding ways to connect with the loss by honoring their child. The fourth point to coping with grief is to adapt to the loss of your child to abortion. Topics include: • abortion • emotions • keys • healing • grief •anger • support • memorial •acknowledge • accept • connect • adapt
© 2021 The Word Among Us Press
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Men's Keys to Hope and Healing Key 5: Walking in confidence and hope
THREE MINUTE RECAP.
13 min. In Key 5 you will learn that there is power in accepting the things outside your control and the things you cannot change. There is relief in allowing this concept to travel from your head to your heart. It is helpful to remind yourself that you cannot control other people’s thoughts or actions. Topics include: • abortion • emotions • keys • healing • confidence • hope • positive thoughts • painful memories • flashbacks • elephant story
© 2021 The Word Among Us Press
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Men's Keys to Hope and Healing Key 6: Giving hope to others
THREE MINUTE RECAP.
10 min. In Key 6 you will learn that your story and your experience can be the key to helping other women start their own healing journey. You will learn your words and your actions can make a difference in someone’s life. Topics include: • abortion • emotions • keys • healing • hope to others • starfish • pay it forward • dark secret
© 2021 The Word Among Us Press
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Understanding Trauma - Naming Trauma
THREE MINUTE RECAP.
11 min. The word “trauma” gets used a lot, but what does it really mean? In this lesson, we will talk about all of the things that trauma is and is not. Topics include: • Trauma • Big T • Daily trauma • Little T • In crowds •Out crowds • Predictability • ACE - Adverse Childhood Experience Questionnaire • PCE - Positive Childhood Experiences Survey • Anger
• Anxiety • Healing English/Spanish ©2023
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Understanding Trauma - Our Trauma is Not our Identity
THREE MINUTE RECAP.
9 min. We are so much more than just the events that we have survived or decisions that we made. Today we will begin work on releasing old hurts and remembering who we are - children of the King. Topics include: • Trauma • Identity • Domestic abuse • Rape
• Addiction • Survivors • Lies • Truth • I Am English/Spanish ©2023
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Understanding Trauma - Shame and Other Useless Things
THREE MINUTE RECAP.
10 min. Guilt is the feeling that we did something bad, while shame is the feeling that we ARE bad. Shame serves no purpose, but can take some practice to recognize and let go of. In this lesson, we will begin the practice of recognizing and releasing this toxin. Topics include: •shame • guilt • sadness • Fear • Forgiveness • Stories • Healing •Trauma
English/Spanish ©2023
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Understanding Trauma - Hard Days: Self-Help is Not Self-Care
THREE MINUTE RECAP.
10 min. We all have hard days and learning how to really care for ourselves can help. Self-help and self-care are not the same things. Both are important, but confusing the two can leave us feeling even worse. Today we will learn the role of each and fill your toolbox with both! Topics Include: • Self-Help • Self-Care • Goals • Steps • Trauma • Full cup • Empty days English/Spanish ©2023
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Understanding Trauma - Boundaries and Seeking Help
THREE MINUTE RECAP.
14 min. God created us for community and we are wired to seek relationships with other people. Today we will talk about safety in relationships, setting boundaries, and establishing trust. Topics include: • Boundaries • Seeking Help • Trauma • Community • Friendship • Healing • Relationships • Very safe • Somewhat safe • Unsafe • Abuse
• Prayer English/Spanish ©2023
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Understanding Trauma - What Does Healing Mean?
THREE MINUTE RECAP.
9 min. Healing takes time and progress can be frustrating. While there are no neat stages that we pass through, there are common feelings. We will explore those today and work on ways to manage those emotions. Topics include: • Healing • Peace • Grief • Trauma • Denial • Anger • Depression • Bargaining • Healing stages • Acceptance • Common feelings
English/Spanish ©2023
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